Advice, to a searcher

To the person who found my blog with this phrase: is my gut instinct right that my boyfriend is gay?

Sweetie, yes.  It sucks big time, but if you're getting the sense that he's more into men than you, you've got a small problem.  It's entirely possible that he has less of an inkling than you, however, so it may not be easy, or produce results if you confront him.  It's also possible that he's a metrosexual, but I'm thinking that if you're really thinking he's gay, you're probably not confused about metrosexuality vs. homosexuality.

That said, if you can live with the fact that one day he might discover that his, ahem, proclivity is actually towards men rather than you, you may want to keep on with the relationship.  I've always wanted an actual gay boyfriend, and it looks like you've gone and found yourself one.  You're somehow better than a fag hag, and I'm entirely jealous.  (Oooh, unless you're in love with him, in which case, dump him immediately, and have a rebound relationship with someone who is not. gay. at. all.) 

Best of luck!  Hope it (or he) turns out to be fabulous!

Comments

[frog]

Good advice. :)